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Female toplessness is legal in a lot of places in the US (although not where I live), and I’d be meeting the letter of the law with a couple of Band-aids. But I have a gut feeling that if I go anywhere that there are people—and particularly anywhere there are children—nobody’s going to be too happy about my Band-aids. The enforcement is social; women just don’t go around topless in the US.

It bothers me because it’s unequal, but it also bothers me in its implications: that my body is inherently sexual, and a man’s body isn’t. It feels like men are being viewed through the first-person lens of “it’s nice to feel the sun on my skin, and I don’t mean anything by it” and women are being viewed through the distinctly third-person lens of “it’s inappropriate for me, a heterosexual man, to see her sexy parts.” It ignores the experiences of people who are turned on by male chests and somehow manage to contain themselves when they see one.

The Pervocracy: My boobs want to be free. (via sexisnottheenemy)

I have no desire to go topless anywhere, but I thought this made good points about perspective, and about how female [identified?] bodies are considered inherently sexual even when nothing sexual is going on or implied.

ive been saying this like my whole life..

(via feministdisney)

↵ Originally from sexisnottheenemy

↵ Reblogged from tarzaaan

sometimes…i really wish i could take my own advice..

(Source: stinker)

↵ Originally from stinker

↵ Reblogged from yupitsleeke

Television: In the criminal justice system--

Me: SEXUALLY-BASED OFFENSES ARE CONSIDERED ESPECIALLY HEINOUS. IN NEW YORK CITY, THE DEDICATED DETECTIVES WHO INVESTIGATE THESE VICIOUS FELONIES ARE MEMBERS OF AN ELITE SQUAD KNOWN AS THE SPECIAL VICTIMS UNIT. THESE ARE THEIR STORIES. DUN DUN

↵ Originally from a-pathetic-fangirl

↵ Reblogged from tryinggtoevolve

1nnocent:

cuddlegasm:

I’m gonna be fat forever

^ literally same

↵ Originally from tonyballer

↵ Reblogged from get-lost-in-music

Anonymous asked

Don't worry about what you think you are. Don't try to rationalize everything. If it make you happy, then do it. Just live in the moment a little more?

yeah i have a hard time with that…

Anonymous asked

its not fair for me to dumb my shit on you especially after reading your last post. we are all so broken wtf :c not a good day <3

i like to listen. i want to help…please….

rant:cos i need to.just dont ask me about it in the morning.

i hurt people. i hurt people i love. i hurt people i love because of the word love. I act like everything’s fine when its not. I act like I know who I am but I don’t. Lesbian, Bisexual, asexual, transgender? Was straight ever even an option. How many lives have I effected? How many struggles have I caused. How can someone love me that much…I don’t understand…I’m known for caring…I flirt too much. Should I stop? People need to feel love, theres so much hate. She loves me…sHe loves move….what if shE had never loved me, would I be here today? What is liking, crushing, loving? I know I overthink things but isnt that what life is? Do I want to love? Am I afraid of love? Do I want to be physical? Am I afraid to be physical? How much is acting and how much is the real thing? what is the real thing. when will I be stable…..never.

Anonymous asked

im not okay im not okay :[

why are you not ok? whats wrong?

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